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Dementia isn’t an actual illness, it is a word that refers to a set of symptoms that are caused by a variety of illnesses such as Alzheimer’s disease. Dementia symptoms often include memory loss, personality changes and confusion. Sadly, dementia causes an ongoing decline in brain functioning and therefore, a person’s ability to live life how they once did. For example, dementia isn’t always just about forgetting where things are. We all have times when we forget where we put our phone. But somebody with dementia might forget what a phone is used for.

For a long time, the person might look healthy on the outside, but on the inside, their brain is not working properly. Dementia affects the brain, that’s why it affects someone’s personality, behaviour and how they do things. It’s pretty easy to assume changes in someone’s personality are intentional, or just a bad mood that is directed at you for no reason. But as hard as it can be to get your head around, personality, mood and social skills are all controlled by brain function. If your brain has a disease, these things are going to be impacted. It’s not intentional. I’m sure most people who become really difficult to deal with when they have dementia would be pretty horrified to know that they were hurting their loved ones, if they could understand.

Is dementia a mental illness?

No, it is a disease of the brain that causes brain cells to die. Our brain is our control centre and it controls everything we say, do and think. Everything from breathing to keep us alive, right through to knowing how to ‘bite your tongue’ when you don’t want to offend someone, is controlled by the brain. When the brain is sick, we have problems with all of our actions, including speaking, remembering, making decisions, learning new skills and understanding information.

Is dementia something that ALL old people get?

No. We all have brain fades from time to time, especially when we get stressed. Anyone can forget where they have put their phone. A person with dementia may forget what the phone is used for.

As people get older, the chances of developing dementia are higher. However this is the same for many illnesses and dementia is not a ‘normal part of aging’. Not all older people will develop dementia, and some younger people will develop it too. Although this is not as common, some people develop dementia in their 30s, 40s and 50s. ‘Younger onset dementia’ refers to dementia that is diagnosed in a person before they turn 65 years old.

How do doctors know when somebody has dementia?

There is not just one test. Dementia is difficult to diagnose and the younger somebody is, the longer it can take to detect and diagnose. Lots of different tests must be done before a doctor will diagnose dementia. There are some good reasons for this: there are some illnesses that might seem like dementia, but are treatable. It’s important to rule out these illnesses before diagnosing dementia, because doctors don’t want to tell someone they have an incurable condition unless they are sure.

Because dementia is quite difficult to diagnose, this often means families are living with the impact of dementia long before they even know what they are dealing with. For some families, this time before a diagnosis is really stressful. Once a diagnosis has been made, a doctor might be able to say that a person has a particular ‘type’ of dementia.

Is there a cure?

Sadly, at the moment there is no treatment that can cure dementia. There are some medications that may help a person with dementia to think more clearly, but they don’t work for everyone and they do not cure the person. We hope that through the hard work of doctors and other researchers there will be a cure soon – or at least something to slow dementia down.

How common is it?

Sadly, dementia is really common, particularly in people over the age of 65. There are over 421,000 people living with dementia in Australia right now. That means, there would probably be over a million teenagers in Australia who know someone who has dementia. You might feel like you’re the only person who is dealing with it in your family, but you are not alone.

Different types of dementia


You might not know this, but there are over 400 different types of dementia! Some are more common than others. A few things will influence how different types of dementia affect people, but it is important to remember that everybody is unique and therefore, even two people with the same type of dementia might have different symptoms.

Here is a brief breakdown of some of the most common types of dementia:

How long does it last?

The rate at which any type of dementia gets worse varies from person to person. However, the symptoms will get worse as the disease affects different parts of the brain, and it does eventually lead to people being disabled in all areas of their body.

People working in the field talk about ‘stages’ of dementia. In reality, it’s not that clear cut. There are lots of difference between people and there can be good days and bad days in the way somebody is functioning. Dementia can look a bit different from day to day and even change depending on the environment. For example, a person might be able to look after themselves quite well at home, but when they go to a busy shopping centre, they might suddenly find it difficult to find words, remember where they are, and can become agitated and overwhelmed.

Although there is no particular point at which someone enters a ‘stage’ of dementia, commonly people talk about three main stages:

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Last updated
27 November 2023